Parent Support for Overwhelmed Parents: Why Stress Isn’t a Parenting Failure
- Sharyn Feldman

- 2 days ago
- 2 min read

Parenting today is intense.
For many parents, it's become almost synonymous with stress. This isn’t a personal failure...it’s the context parents are raising children in.
Parents today are parenting in a world that has been changing right under their feet. Expectations have multiplied. Information is endless. Decisions feel heavier. And the responsibility can feel relentless.
Some of the pressures are enormous: the cost of living, climate change, and raising children in an uncertain world. Other stressors are quieter but constant, like navigating picky eating, managing school expectations, coordinating activities, handling sibling dynamics, and trying to hold everything together while working, caregiving, and maintaining relationships.
Parents often tell me they feel perpetually behind. There’s never enough time, never enough energy, and a constant undercurrent of self-doubt about whether they’re doing it “right.”
So they turn to social media looking for answers, reassurance, community, and guidance. What they often find instead is more information than they can possibly integrate. Parents become over-informed, overwhelmed, and oversaturated — and yet still under-resourced when it comes to real, relational support.
While we may not be able to control the world outside our homes, we do have meaningful choices in how we respond to stress within them. And this matters deeply. How parents manage their own stress, emotions, and reactions shapes the emotional climate their children grow up in.
This is where parent support plays an essential role — not only in moments of crisis, and not because something has gone wrong, but as part of family wellness and preventive care. Parent support and parent therapy help parents stay grounded, reflective, and intentional rather than depleted or reactive.
We don’t wait for a dental emergency before seeing a dentist. We understand regular check-ups as part of responsible care. Support for parents works in much the same way. Because when we support the person at the centre of the family system, the entire system benefits.
Parenting isn’t meant to be done in isolation. Support isn’t about fixing anyone...not you, and not your child. It’s about having informed, steady support as you navigate the ongoing process of becoming the parent your family needs.
If you’re finding yourself overwhelmed, uncertain, or simply wanting to parent with more clarity and confidence, parent support can be a meaningful next step — not because you’re failing, but because this relationship matters.


"Parenting isn’t meant to be done in isolation." I think this is the lesson so many of us are still slowly learning. Great post
This is exactly what I needed to hear today.
This is a great reminder. It’s not about fixing but rather supporting parents. Love this!!
Great reminder!